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When a Friend is Hurting

“How have you been?” I asked. Looking into her tired eyes, my heart ached for the suffering I knew she was going through. We talked about her treatments, how far she had to go, and the realities of living every day with cancer. Though I knew she was suffering, it was a suffering I didn’t […]

Proverbs

Christian Friendship

We met on an ordinary Sunday morning. People were gathered around talking after morning worship. Adults stood with styrofoam coffee cups in their hand, catching up with each other’s week. The children ran around like balls in a pinball machine, bumping into people’s legs and zigzagging through the crowd. The pastor’s wife pulled me over where […]

To Walk Alongside the Hurting

You’ve seen her before. The one who always sits in the back at church. She averts her gaze, fearful that her eyes will give away all her secrets. She never says much and quickly goes on her way. You want to help, to reach out, but you’re not sure…what if her problems are too much? What if you […]