Last night for our date night, we saw Ethan’s psychologist.  I know, kind of lame even the Dr. teased us about it.  He suggested that we at least go out for drinks afterward so it feels a little like a date night:)  We met with him to get parenting advice on raising a kid who is smarter than we are.  He was VERY helpful, encouraging, and supportive.  One thing he wants us to do is make sure we treat him like an average 5 yr old even though he can process like a much older child, i.e. no logical discussions about rules and consequences.  On occassion I have had to restrain Ethan using restraining techniques we had used at my last job.  The Dr. runs the EAP at the local sheriff’s dept. and suggested we use the restraining techniques he teaches them there.  I think it will actually work better for me and tire me out less. 

We all agreed that things will improve once he is in school and has a consistent routine where his mind is continually stimulated.  He’s convinced that Ethan will love the gifted program at his school and will thrive there.  We talked about ways to keep him stimulated at home until then, but acknowledged the challenge that can be when I also have a two yr. old around at the same time.   We also talked about Ethan’s love language being quality time and how to go about filling that.  He suggested that Ethan have a later bedtime than Ian, partly so we can spend one on one time with him.  (that’ll be tough to convince Ian of!).  I’m very glad we made the appointment and am hopeful we can get him back on track.