Today I want to introduce you to my friend Roseann from Tuning My Heart to Praise. My heart has been richly blessed from reading her grace laced words each week. A veteran homeschooler, she has years of wisdom and lessons learned which she shares generously. Always humble and gracious, she will encourage your heart and point you the God of all grace.
Grace For The Gaps
I guess I would be considered a veteran…
At least in the Homeschooling arenas.
My oldest is getting ready to turn 30 and my youngest is 16.
When asked to share what I have learned from all these years of schooling…
From raising my kids…
So many things come to mind…
Don’t let homeschool become an idol
Let Christ be the center of your day
Look for teachable moments right in the middle school lessons
Teach kids to be hard workers…as unto the Lord
Give an honest days work at school
You can’t give from the spiritual realm what you don’t have yourself
The list could go on and on…
Go here and you can read more of my homeschooling journey…
We share out of where we live…
And right now I am watching my son as he turns the page of his story…
Ready to start a new chapter…
One foot out the door…stepping out with confidence and hope…
This “launching” makes a parent shake just a little…
Because I know there are “gaps”…areas not covered in homeschool or lifeschool
Gaps in his education…gaps in his upbringing…
Gaps that in the past would have crushed me…
Blinding me to all the good…
Gaps that in the past would have condemned me…
Gaps that would have labeled me a failure.
The enemy’s tactics have been the same since the beginning of time…
He tempts us like He tempted Eve…
He tell us… we too can be like God…
Be the savoir to our kids….
Bearing the burden of having all the answers… of holding all truth…
He shouts the lie…”If you don’t get it right…If you don’t fill all the gaps…
If you are not perfect, your kids will not make it.”
The enemy is still right there to whisper the doubts…
Begging me ask the wrong questions…
Did I do enough? Did I…? Did I…? Did I…?
But now, by His love, when I see gaps…He helps me see grace…
Today, I realize we will never be able to fill all the gaps…
We as parents were never meant to fill all the gaps…but He can.
So now, the better question is … Is He…?
Is He enough to take my son and continue the work started in a heart…in a home?
This “launching” is the 4th of our 5 children…
With each one, I release more freely…more confidently…
Not because of the job I did…
But because God has proven Himself faithful…
To love my children unto Himself…to be their Abba Father…
To be their Friend…to be their Comforter …
To give all the wisdom they need…
To truly fill the gaps with his love and grace.